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June 28, 2007

Annie, j'adore.

When my friend Annie was moving halfway across the country with her two young children and her husband, Gerry, she asked me to write a little "guest entry" for her website. I had never done such a thing, and I had no idea what to say since Annie is a well-known Knitting Goddess(TM) and I myself enjoy making rectangles in garter stitch, so I just did what I do best and got personal.

Here is a picture of me and Annie on the one-year anniversary of my divorce:

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She had no idea when we met up that night at a Chinese restaurant in Los Angeles that we were marking a rather infamous occassion. It was right before Christmas, and cold outside, and things had been threatening to go cold inside me, too. You can be over a thing, for all intents and purposes, and still the anniversary of it stings a little.

We sat at that restaurant with Drew, the Crochet Dude, and we talked and laughed and ate amazing good food and then later, when we practically closed down the joint, we moved on to a local coffee shop and chatted some more. It was Annie's idea to go get coffee, and I was so glad she suggested it! I hadn't had so much fun in weeks and weeks, just gabbing with old friends and relaxing, the three of us sharing ideas and even getting to see a peek at Annie's flip-books, still in concept stage at that point.

There are a lot of things you don't know about Annie Modesitt, like how funny she is, and kind, and how she fills up a whole room with her exuberance and energy. She likes going barefoot, and has two of the most beautiful kids on the planet, and I tell you all these details because I wanted to share with you the one gift Annie gave me that cold night in December. She gave me warmth. I saw the way she talked about her husband, her kids, and the joy on her face just gave me hope and made me think that perhaps somewhere out there, even in a crazy mixed-nuts place like Los Angeles, maybe there is a fit for me, too. And when I speak about him, whenever and whoever he might be, I hope my face lights up the same way hers does about Gerry.

That is a lovely, beloved gift.

I'm sure ya'll have read or heard by now that Annie's husband Gerry was recently diagnosed with cancer. I can't even imagine what she's going through, with the kids, responsibilities, fears, work, the love of your life ... oh, the love of your life.

Annie is offering a pattern right now for a donation, you can find it here. There has also been a website set up by fans in support, We Love Annie, and I hope you will open your heart and your pocketbook if you have it, or send her a card just to say hey to your mama, that kind of thing. Her mailing address is:

Annie Modesitt
1043 Grand Ave.
P.O. Box 117
St. Paul, MN 55105

And if you pray, whomever you pray to, I hope you'll keep that little red-headed family of four in your thoughts and good wishes. They are fireballs, all of them, lovely and adored.

Posted by laurie at June 28, 2007 09:47 AM

Comments

That is *so* sweet, L.

Happy thoughts and much love to Annie and Gerry.

Posted by: Christine at June 28, 2007 09:53 AM

Oh, crap. That makes all my piddly whines seem ... piddly. You're such a great friend. I will send her the Positive Thought Vibes.

Posted by: MonkeyGurrl at June 28, 2007 09:53 AM

I'm so there. Blessings and luck to her entire family.

Posted by: jillieofthevalley at June 28, 2007 09:55 AM

And btw, that pattern is AMAZING.

Posted by: MonkeyGurrl at June 28, 2007 09:57 AM

To have a friend like you must be a blessing to her as well.
Well wishes headed Annie's way ...

Posted by: Monica at June 28, 2007 10:06 AM

I hadn't heard, but now that I have, I am also sending Happy Thoughts & Positive Energy to Annie and Gerry and the kids!

They're so lucky to have you for a friend. :)

Posted by: Julie at June 28, 2007 10:13 AM

I met Annie last year during the southern leg of her knitting tour. I found her funny and entertaining. Her love for her husband and children shows every time she speaks about them.
My thoughts and prayers are with her and her family during this difficult and stressful time.

Posted by: Deborah at June 28, 2007 10:35 AM

They've been in my thoughts since she first mentioned it on her blog.. how nice that the knitting world is rallying around them. Knitters are the best people in the world.

Posted by: Beth at June 28, 2007 10:35 AM

I'm so glad you are doing this. I did, too, but I don't know her personally and I get maybe 20 readers a day, so it's way cool that you're spreading the word.

I just cry every time I read her blog lately, but I keep reading. The pattern is awesome, by the way, although I doubt anyone really needs much encouragement to help out a knitter in need.

Posted by: Anna-Liza at June 28, 2007 10:37 AM

Thank you for spreading the word, I did not know. I know about Annie's work, but nothing about this stressful time in their life. I will send best prayers and energy. You're a good friend.

Posted by: cecelia at June 28, 2007 10:42 AM

The Sexy Knitters Club is doing her pattern as their next Knitalong....I'm gonna buy the pattern as soon as I post this. It's always good to help a knitter in need...our thoughts are with her.

Posted by: Scrapper at June 28, 2007 10:43 AM

Laurie, that just breaks my heart and I will donate and I will pray. Thank you for sharing this opportunity to be "Southern" and give from the heart! Barbara (in San Diego)

Posted by: Dogmama at June 28, 2007 10:46 AM

Way cool pattern. I must go and make a donation.

Posted by: Dagny at June 28, 2007 11:05 AM

Coincidentally, I just yesterday got caught up on reading her blog and found out about Gerri. I'm so glad there's a way for folks to help. Thanks for spreading the information (and the love). :-)

Posted by: Mary in Virginia at June 28, 2007 11:14 AM

Oh my god, I just followed the pattern link and read Annie's brave but so so sad story of her husband's cancer. I will definitely donate, although I won't be knitting the dress--way too complicated for the likes of me. As others have said, she is so fortunate to have you for her friend.

Posted by: gigi at June 28, 2007 11:14 AM

Thanks for the post. I had no idea her husband was so sick. It's a beautiful pattern and I made a donation. Thanks again for letting us know.

Posted by: Ellen-Mary at June 28, 2007 11:31 AM

I have never knit any of Annie's patterns but I have admired them tremendously. Your post inspired me to go to Annie's site and donate - thanks to you, Laurie, I got to help someone I admire *and* get a great pattern!

Posted by: Val at June 28, 2007 11:47 AM

What a wonderful post and dedication to your friend. I hope and pray everything works out for her husband and her family.

Posted by: Jennifer at June 28, 2007 11:59 AM

Praying for Gerry, Annie and their family's health.

Posted by: psychomom at June 28, 2007 12:11 PM

I'm so glad you posted this. She is so amazing and deserves every penny she gets.

Posted by: Jenny at June 28, 2007 12:12 PM

you have to come visit her in St Paul & get the tour of all 20 something of our yarn shops.

Kathy in Mpls

ps I am donating platelets, that they use to help chemotherapy patients recover. Maybe it can help Gerri.

Posted by: kathy at June 28, 2007 12:15 PM

Beautiful words, Laurie. Thanks for posting this.

Posted by: Mary at June 28, 2007 12:20 PM

thanks for spreading the word!
I am donating right now.

Posted by: suetreiber at June 28, 2007 12:24 PM

I just went and made a small donation, and I'll go back and do it again when I have a little more to give. Annie and her family are definitely in my thoughts.

Posted by: Angela in Ontario at June 28, 2007 12:52 PM

As soon as we get some money into our PayPal account, Merrill's Fund will be donating. Anne, our love and thoughts to you and yours.

Posted by: The Other Dagny at June 28, 2007 01:21 PM

I've had the good fortune of meeting Annie, and she's just as you describe. Down-to-earth, smart, funny, loving... I'll help spread the word to help!

Posted by: Karen in Toledo at June 28, 2007 01:44 PM

Main Street Yarns & Fibers (the "We Love Annie" site) has set up a very nice 6-week sock yarn & needles raffle for only 5$ per ticket - lots of folks sending little bits of money can add up fast!

And all the good thoughts and prayers being sent to Annie and her family can only have a good affect!

Posted by: quinn at June 28, 2007 02:48 PM

Thanks so much for spreading the word about We Love Annie and for sharing that beautiful story. I just read it aloud at the shop and we all were near tears. She's such a special person!

Posted by: Anita at June 28, 2007 03:04 PM

Oh, you.

I adore you, Laurie, you know that - right?

You're amazing. And an amazing friend. Thank you.

Posted by: Annie at June 28, 2007 03:51 PM

Awwww. :)

Posted by: Patti at June 28, 2007 04:40 PM

Um, I think I know Annie!

Posted by: Not Fainthearted at June 28, 2007 05:06 PM

I read about Gerry this morning and ran over to donate. Hopefully, I can do more later.

Annie rocks!

Posted by: Lynae at June 28, 2007 05:09 PM

Prayers to the whole redhaired knitty family. Healing prayers, indeed.

Posted by: orangeblossoms at June 28, 2007 05:58 PM

Laurie, this is why we all love you because you have so much love and caring for your friends. You inspire people to be nice.

Posted by: Marg B at June 28, 2007 06:44 PM

My prayers are out to their family and friends. This is such a tough thing to handle for all involved, and that includes the friends.

Posted by: Jennifer (from MS) at June 28, 2007 07:05 PM

I have just recently discovered you (I know - where have I been?). You were so kind to share Annie's story here. How come the good ones go through things like this and the ones who are hateful and mean to their wives and kids are bopping along on their merry way? I wish I knew the answer. Anyhow, I love your fun take on life and I'm glad you share it with all of us. I try to be happy and positive too, even though I'm going through a divorce now, but it's good to see someone else has made it through with the fun side still intact!

Posted by: Cindy at June 28, 2007 07:34 PM

i donated too. i never do that, but i was just looking at a youtube thing of annie's flip books *yesterday* -- and i grew up in st paul, mn and lived in annie & gerry's very own exact neighborhood until i left the area in 1998. i even bought some brown sheep worsted, some meilenweit megaboots, and a skein of mountain colors bearfoot at the yarnery when i was in town june 17. too too much coincidence not to do *something*, even if it's tiny.

Posted by: brennessel at June 28, 2007 07:56 PM

Dear Laurie,

Thanks for letting us know about this. Imagine what the world would be like if every time something like this happened we had the opportunity to do something to help.

I am a firm believer that human nature is really, really good but that we are complacent and need someone to rally us for a good cause.

It may sound like a weird thing to say but every time I see something like this, I think "what would John Lennon do?" (I'm going to get one of those little woven bracelets and wear it around.)

I think he would call you up and sing Imagine on your answering machine.

Posted by: karen at June 28, 2007 08:26 PM

just to let you know, i'm collecting 12" squares in machine washable fibers (knit or crochet) and i will be joining them into blankets for annie & her family (including atticus!) anything left over i thought i could send to the charity of her choice. even if you don't want to, please feel free to pass my email onto anyone else who is interested!

and yes, i bought her dress pattern, too.

annie published my first written piece, and my first pattern. she is an inspiration to me, and i want to give back.

Posted by: minnie at June 28, 2007 09:07 PM

OK - have seen the pattern and LOVE it. Would like to make a donation but don't do the PayPal thing (it's got to do with the fact that I'm outside the US, every now and then they deny that my country exists, etc). If somebody would be willing to make a donation on my behalf - I will refund you with either a trade or a gift voucher of equal value from a place that will take my credit card WITHOUT PayPal - please contact me.

TIA

Posted by: Jayne at June 28, 2007 10:24 PM

Well damn. Now a convertible dress pattern was just exactly what I was looking for today. Yes indeed.

Burning a candle for Annie, buying the pattern pronto.

--Dez

Posted by: dez at June 28, 2007 10:32 PM

Minnie--If you go to www.weloveannie.com and follow the links you can donate by credit card at the main street yarns website. They have donated some wonderful prizes too. And everyone who donates will be eligible for the drawings.

--james

Posted by: James at June 29, 2007 01:07 AM

I could never knit such a complex pattern as that dress, but I donated at the We Love Annie site. Pretty cool--they have drawings for sock kits for those who donate ($5 per chance). I've never knit a sock either, but maybe I could swing it if I'm lucky enough to win the kit. In any case, thanks so much for sharing this info. I have heard of Annie, though I haven't read her blog or books. She sounds like a very special woman, and she is very lucky to have friends like you.

Posted by: Katie V. at June 29, 2007 07:35 AM

Thank you SO MUCH for the post ... I clicked over as soon as I read it and made a donation (and downloaded the fab pattern ... I really can't wait to make it). Your warmth made me feel all warm, too :)

Posted by: Liz at June 29, 2007 10:02 AM

Just found your blog, but have read Annie's for a few months. I'd like to plug Annie's swag found at Cafe Press. There is some seriously cool stuff to be found. My favorite - the Knit for Brains design.

I'll be heading over to 'We Love Annie' now to donate.

Posted by: Linda at July 1, 2007 05:26 AM

This is a good woman that deserves all the good she and her family can get.I bought the pattern and want to suggest she put up another pattern less complex that simple me could knit and pray through every stitch?

Posted by: Marsha at July 1, 2007 07:37 AM

Yikes. I am out of the country right now, believe it or not, but as soon as I get home.

Posted by: Lucia at July 1, 2007 03:21 PM

what good timing.. I'm having one of those anniversary "moments" myself.

They suck.

Posted by: Mia at July 2, 2007 08:51 AM